America - the end

VulcanSpirit
Richard & Alison Brunstrom
Thu 24 Nov 2011 03:24
I write this on our last evening in the USA. It's amazing that we have been here very nearly half a year. The time has just flown past in a whirl of mending the boat, cleaning the boat, mending the boat again, cleaning the boat, mending the boat some more (you get the idea) and the occasional trip ashore.
Our overall impression of America and Americans has changed dramatically as a result of our sojourn here. we are still amazed by how friendly, polite and courteous their society is. Everyone wants to help, to be of service, to go out of their way to assist even complete strangers like us. It is routine to be offered lifts, or even a car(!), for traffic to stop to let you cross the road and to be invited back to someone's house for a meal as a complete stranger. In six months here I have not heard a raised voice, I have not seen a misbehaving youth, I have not seen anyone who has drunk too much, I have not seen a stray dog. The streets are clean, spotlessly so; kids don't drop litter because their parents don't. No chewing gum on the pavement. Society, at least down the East Coast, seems calm orderly and pleasant and the people are just lovely. I am ashamed of our national culture in the UK, in comparison to here.
 
But then you look at their mad and often extremely unpleasant national politics, and their addiction to guns and religion, and you just have to think again - and be very afraid. How can a nation of such seemigly nice people have ended up like this? A big question to which there is no simple answer, so I shan't attempt to give one.
 
But to finish on a nice note, here is a typically American thing. This beautiful flower arrangement graces the foyer of the excellent Chrysler Museum of Art here in Norfolk (which has a superb collection of glassware). It has been done for the museum by local volunteers, because that's what they're like here. I've never seen anything similar in a British museum. Anyway, here it is: