Birthday Dance

Rhiann Marie - Round the World
Stewart Graham
Wed 12 May 2010 18:43
May 12th 0745 local time 1745 UTC   
 
15:57.24S 145:04.13W
 
Having arrived in the atoll of Kauehi on Saturday we anchored overnight and had a great sleep. Trish had not enjoyed the fast passage down and the permanent "pedal to the metal" sail, so I took almost all the watches with Trish giving me a couple of hours on the second night. That's fine be me as in the open ocean I am happy to have twenty minute cat naps in between thorough visual look outs and with two radar alarm zones set. This backed up with an hour or two during the day is enough.   
 
Sunday was my birthday and Trish and I went exploring the coral reef with the dingy in the morning. Just as we were about to go back to the boat we spied something black in the water. On approach it turned out to be 1,2,3 4! manta rays. They seemed to be going through some kind of ritual - mating we think. One or two would turn over on their backs for the very large one and they would approach at the surface - head to head a couple of feet apart. One seemed to be courting our dingy and we were surrounded by them at close quarters. We got good video footage though we are not sure about the quality of our photos. In the evening Trish made a wonderful steak and vin rouge dinner with caramelised bananas and ice cream desert. Delish.....
 
The next day we were exploring ashore and trying to seek out a visit to a pearl farm or even to buy some black pearls. Our extensive door knocking and questioning took us back to the small store where we discussed this with the owner who said "OK come with me" (probably that's what she said - I have almost no French and absolutely no Tahitian). Off we went over to her house where after a time she got out a poly bag containing over two and a half thousand black pearls! Her friend Carmen who was with her said this was only one bag she had many many bags!
 
During our visit Nocole proudly told us she was 53 and was interested to know how old we were and I got my age wrong ( a year too old! ) and we explained that it had been my birthday the day before and I was not yet up to speed.
 
To be clear these pearls are the "imperfects" ALL the perfects go to Tahiti and none apparently are available locally. We were having fun with Nicole and Carmen, who had been picking flowers, over a coffee and lunch sifting through the pearls, when she asked if we had been to the "restaurant". "No" we replied but we would like to go. She made a few calls and spoke with Colette. Dinner was arranged at Colette's and we agreed that along with a Canadian couple at the anchorage who we invited along that we would be collected by Colette at 1730 at the end of the jetty. 
 
Colette was beautiful and everything you might imagine a beautiful polynesian woman to be - however all four of us were awestruck by the beauty of her daughter who was with her. Bright clothes and skirt, long black hair in which she wore a colourful Frangipani or Hibiscus flower - my memory is blinded by the intensity of the image!
 
The transport to her home where she would cook for us was in the back of her landrover for about 5 miles of track. However, before leaving the village we stopped at Nicole's store and she and Carmen came out and presented me with a floral leigh and kisses for my birthday! This birthday was really being milked - a birthday party in Marquesas with our friends, a birthday dinner and now this.......... well the best was yet to come.
 
After the landrover ride we arrived at a stunning polynesian house on the beach, which was to be our restaurant. It was octagonal with open windows to the sea breeze. There was a high peaked wooden ceiling and beams with a central "tree" pillar. The floor was dark hard wood and the furniture was exquisite. We had been expecting a beach shack and sandy floors or something - but not this elegant sophisticated environment. The dinner was set out on a table with white table cloth and flowers everywhere. Polynesian music played in the background.
 
Nanee the goddess like daughter was our waitress and host while mum and dad cooked. When Nanee approached to ask a question she would kneel down at your side and bring her head very close to your ear to speak quietly to you, with bowed head and uplifted eyes, to ask her question or relay her answer. This must be traditional - but traditional or not I almost fell over when she knelt down and said that because it was my birthday she was going to dance for me!!!!!!
 
Her dancing was mesmerising and not only did all of our jaws fall open I was moved to emotion at the beguiling beauty of the dance and the kindness of the gesture. As if that was not enough she danced a second dance. She said her grandmother had taught her these traditional dances - well that would be some granny whose hips were attached to her spine with a universal joint! 
 
The meal was fantastic and would not be out of place in a Michelin starred restaurant - awesome and totally unexpected.  Ahhhhhhhh.............
 
On Tuesday after a visit ashore with some "thank you" gifts we set off down the lagoon through the uncharted territory south of the village. Trish took the helm while I was forward standing on the pulpit pointing ourt directions for swerving through the "bommies" (coral heads ) almost breaking the surface. The journey was a little bit hairy at times but we were rewarded with a Pacific paradise anchorage. No body or no boats for miles the anchorage to ourseleves and surrounded by three deserted palmed sandy islands. Lets hope we can work our way back out to the pass when we want to leave!