Journeys End and New Horizons

Kirsty and Lee's Excellent Adventure
Lee Matthews
Thu 23 May 2013 09:57
10:40.855N 61:38.208W
“A journey is best measured in friends…not miles” - Tim Cahill
…..and I am currently sitting in Port of Spain airport googling other
cheesey quotes, for this, our last blog …for a while.
It has been an emotional few weeks of reunions, new acquaintances, old
acquaintances, family some sublime sailing and a nice surprise in the
tail.
We left Lou in Union island and flew South on a great wind to Grenada again
to pick up Cara and Jaff (Kirsty’s sister and Carib drinking other half).
The plan was to sail to Tobago spend a few days there before heading for
Trinidad to haul Jon Jon out.
![]() Boat Lime!!
We had planned a reunion in Union Island funnily enough with Graham and
Chrissie on Eowyn our good friends who we met in St Lucia , but then we also got
an email finally from our friends that we met in Gib, Rabat and Lanzarote
and hadn’t seen since; Tim and Nancy on Larus. We have been missing each other
all season and we were dying to see them as they were the last people we met in
Europe it would have been fitting to see them at the end. They were a mere
25 miles away in Bequia and they kindly agreed to head south to Union so off we
shot with Cara and Jaff to Union Island, for a rendezvous at "Happy Island
- liquidation for the nation..etc" the bar on the reef we love so much. It
also would give us a better angle on Tobago and …well..the rum punch is
legendary…
The wind was in the south and for once we had an easy sail up. On entering
the harbour we spied Emma and Stuart who had sailed a Sadler 25 !!! over
the pond and who we had met in Bequia. We also saw another couple of boats we
knew so a big evening was arranged at Happy Island. Fortunately no one took
their camera, it was messy but great fun.
The next day (or was it two days…v bad heads all around) it was farewell to
Amarosa, farewell to wonderful Tim and Nancy on Larus , hopefully our paths will
cross again, and we headed off to the show Cara and Jaff the Tobago Cays, not
before pulling half of the junk on the seabed up with our anchor!!! A fun hour
was spent being the harbour entertainment !!!
We were reflecting on our time in Union as we left and saying one thing
that would have made it perfect was if our other friends we haven’t seen since
Lanzatote - Phil and Sara on ‘Lochmarin’ had turned up too. 1 hour later and we
pulled into the Cays only to find….Lochmarin on their anchor. We were so
excited. We had a great time in the Cays again, this really is paradise in every
sense. We went turtle and iguana hunting, and Phil and Sara took me onto the
Atlantic side of the reef to snorkel in their big rib tender. It was amazing
snorkelling in the ocean, waves crashing on the reef around you. We had beach
Barbeque with Eowyn and then sadly had to say good bye to Chrissie and Graham,
they practically live here and so we will meet them again. On the second night
we were treated to Phil and Sara’s amazing hospitality and sore heads once more
were had by all.
![]() We left Cays feeling like loose ends had been tied up, that we had come
full circle in many ways and headed north to show Cara and Jaff Bequia,
our favourite place and also to get a better angle on Tobago as the wind was not
playing ball. We sailed almost downwind to Bequia, really unusual and very
welcome. We stayed a few days to try and get the wind to come round to the
East. Finally it did and we set off for the hard sail to Tobago but we were
beaten back by the current which would not let us get a good enough angle. After
a couple of hours we made the decision to scrap Tobago and head straight for
Trini, where we could get a ferry to Tobago. It was a great beam reach 36 hours
to the ‘Mouth of the Dragon” great starry skies kind seas and fast speeds. It
was Cara and Jaffs first night sail and we couldn’t have asked for a better one.
Whilst passing through the Bocas del Dragon we picked up a passenger. A
Trinidad racing pigeon decided it was all too tiring in the heat and landed on
our bimini. We tried everything to get him off as we knew customs were strict
and importing pigeons was definitely not allowed. We shouted …it just blinked.
We pushed the bimini from below and it just walked around. I poked it and it
just shat on the bimini…it wasn’t leaving. Then as we approached Chaguaramas Bay
and it saw it was close enough to home, off it went…. It basically got a free
ride…something we were about to find out is a way of life in Trini. We
arrived in Chaguaramas, which is a giant boat park. 7 boat yards all in a row
all there for one purpose. Trinidad doesn’t get hurricanes, so boat owners like
ourselves take their boats there to leave over hurricane season.
We had heard so many bad reports on Trini that we were ready to jump off
and head for Tobago for a couple of days. But there is really something
intoxicating about this place and we decided to stay put. Yes the heat and
humidity were something else and the water was filthy and crime is an issue here
but Trini has heart and soul. I feel, much more than the rest of the Carribean.
And most of all Trini has Liming….. Lots of it. Trinis love to party, liming is
a national past time. We hired the infamous Jesse James to do a tour for us and
the driver we got, Derek, explained to us in no less than a million words what
Trini was all about…..Liming…. The art of 3 or more people to get together drink
masses of alcohol and talk nonsense for hours. This all sounded very familiar to
us and we liked the idea. You can have a street lime, a river lime, a work lime
(during working hours), a mans lime (no women allowed) a family
lime.. but most of all you must have a good time, if you do it’s a sweet lime!!
And if someone is being miserable they are “souring the lime” so to speak
and they get told so in no uncertain terms. Derek explained that drinking plays
a major part in Trini life. But they only drink heavily during the world famous
carnival and during Christmas. Question “when do these happen Derek?” “Well
Christmas starts usually at the end of October to December 25th and Carnival
starts really happening Jan 1st to March….. that’s a lot of heavy drinking!!!
And Trini also due to its multi cultural nature has the most holidays of
any country in the world. Muslims have a holiday, the whole country has a day
off. Hindus have a holiday the same, Christians…. everyone has a holiday. They
have solved the multi cultural problem here with holidays. (someone needs to
send Norman Tebbit down here for a week). How can you be angry or intolerant of
another culture when they are responsible for you getting 2 extra days off a
year!!! Interracial marriages are common and encouraged, and of course the more
weddings you have the more liming you have.
As for the food, Trini has many types of food. Most of them contain
hot pepper sauce but the best by far is the Doubles. Doubles are Trini
breakfast. Basically 2 Indian fried puris with chick pea curry served very hot
with slight on the pepper. That and the rotis for lunch I have been in
heaven food wise here!!!
![]() Doubles!!
And the nature here is second to none. We took a trip into the rainforest
to see birds including large numbers of humming birds flying around our head;
the swamp to see more birds including the National Birds the Red Ibis; and
finally to a beach where we watched giant Leatherback turtles come ashore to lay
eggs after travelling 3000 miles from the North Atlantic to the beach of their
birth. We watched in awe as a gentle giant crawled right up to us and dug her
hole and layed her eggs. We watched over 15 turtles come ashore in the dark to
do this it was magical and a priviledge to see.
![]() The guide said this was the biggest turtle he’d ever seen.
![]() Washing Trini style
![]() Cara and Jaff regrettably flew home and we got Jon jon ready to come out of
the water. We rdv'd with Lochmarin again who were doing the same and bid them
one last farewell. Finally, and sadly, we said goodbye to Jon Jon
![]() and headed for the airport only to find Stuart and Emma off Amarosa in the
seats next to us on the flight home.
So thats it for now, what a year it has been. We have totalled 6500
nautical miles on our fabulous boat since leaving the UK almost a year ago. I
still have to pinch myself when I think of what we did. It was always a dream of
mind to cross the Atlantic, to do it in my own boat with Kirsty was amazing.
When I look back, I wonder how we made it through those squalls and storms, I
guess sometimes you have to just take stuff on the chin, keep calm and carry
on!! I still maintain the hardest part was casting off the lines in Lanzarote,
that was the cliff edge. After that you cant go back anyway. And we are carrying
on...just not on Jon Jon. We really need a boat thats more comfortable down wind
to do a circumnavigation...which is obviously the next step! But on Jon Jon we
have had a blast in the Carribean. She is such a great boat to wind and has kept
us safe for so many miles.
We would like to say thanks to all the amazing people we have met and their
hospitality, thanks to the wonderful people of the Caribbean who have made us
welcome wherever we have gone, thanks to folks back home keeping our lives
going, and thank to those who came to visit. There is much more to come. We are
going to home to do some work during the hurricane season (I am off to teach
sailing in Gib) and then its back out for another winter in the Caribbean.
![]() At the end of that Jon Jon goes home and we go back to the real world!!!
........for now.....we are planning the big trip around the world as we speak.
So I'm signing off for a bit, thanks for reading and watch out for series 2
- Lee and Kirsty's Bonus Journey!!!
![]() Night Night Jon Jon
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